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LOST and FOUND
Offering a helping hand to you on your journey
                            from loss to renewal and to finding new love after loss

   DO YOU NEED A HELPING HAND ON YOUR GRIEF JOURNEY?
If so, you have come to the right place for both practical and spiritual support from a widow who has taken her own grief journey. On that journey, I developed my own theory on grief, "The Pick Up Sticks Theory" (©2010, Ellen Gerst), which I explain in the following video.

                                

If you have lost a loved one, you are about to, or have already started to, take the arduous journey of "picking of your sticks." This journey will require you to examine your very existence. It is hard for a person who has never lost a mate, or another loved one, to understand the depth to which your soul may sink. It is as if a part of you has been ripped away and kind and well-meaning words, thoughts and deeds will not help to lessen its intensity.

In fact, you may even shun them, for you want to feel the searing pain in your heart
  just so you know you can feel SOMETHING! What is hard to realize at the inception of your loss is that this will be a defining moment in your life. You will either DECIDE to just SURVIVE by going through the motions of life without the emotions, OR you will DECIDE to THRIVE.

THE DECISION IS YOURS. You can make a conscious decision to move forward through your grief journey in order to find a place of peace, acceptance, and personal renewal, or you can decide to stay stuck in sadness forever. Over time, you must learn to put your grief in perspective and let it work for you, rather than be its slave. It is not possible to go back in time before your loss. Your ultimate power lies in how you respond to the new circumstances of your life.

I have made my own grief journey and wish to offer you the benefit of my experience, as well as my support. All my books, service and products were born from my desire to help those who are now traveling the road I once trod. On this journey, I found personal renewal and new love, and I want to help you do the same.

Suddenly Single leads you through the maze of the grief journey towards love, understanding and personal renewal with practical, emotional, physical and spiritual guidance. It is written in a concise essay format so the reader can find the exact topic upon which guidance is needed without having to wade through superfluous information. 
101 Tips and Thoughts on Coping with Grief is an even more concise coping with grief guide. Easy-to-read and right to the point, the reader can incorporate a thought a day to bring a new perspective which can enable a more graceful journey through the grieving process.

For more individualized support, read about one-on-one grief or relationship coaching

LEARN HOW TO BE A THRIVER INSTEAD OF JUST A SURVIVOR!

If you are far enough along on your grief journey that you are starting to think about finding new love, read how to do that in a healthy and successful manner.

Click to purchase Love After Loss: Writing The Rest of Your Story
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Mastering the Art of Intimate Relationships
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How To Find Your Happily Ever After: What To Do Before and After You Say "I Do"
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Today Is The Day: A Dating Journey
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25 Tips and Thoughts on Love and Relationships

 


Related Information, Articles, and Downloads
 

For a variety of free e-books, click here.
To read grief and relationship related articles on Scribd, click here.
To read 10 Tips on Coping with Grief, click here.
To read 9 Tips on How To Date with Success, click here.


So grab hold of my hand, and let me lend you my support born from experience. And when you find yourself further down the road, perhaps you will be in a position to do the same for another. Just imagine if everyone put out his or her hand to help the next person starting on this journey, then the whole world could eventually be holding hands. Wouldn't that be a beautiful place in which to live!




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